Frugal Tuesdays: Should you continue to tithe/donate to charity when paying off debt?

 

One question that inevitably comes up when creating a plan to pay off debt is: “should I continue to donate to charity &/or tithe to my church?”

As a practicing Mormon, I have paid a 10% tithe since I began my first job mowing lawns at age 11. Tithing is not unique to the LDS church, most churches believe in some form of tithing or offering. But it was instilled in me at a young age that tithing is something that is not only important, but essential. Since my early days of mowing lawns, I’ve gone from earning little (babysitting, my first “real” job as a sales clerk at JCPenneys, secretarial work) to now earning a solid & steady income (for the record, Joseph earnings are my earnings, too).

There were scarce times when our income was irregular & spotty. But through it all we paid a...

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{MM} 10.7.13 Reader’s Comments + My Fave Links

 

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Happy Monday!

This weekend was an especially lovely one. It began with a Friday night date with Mr. Dreamy (ie. Joseph). We went to an outdoor movie at the San Antonio Botanical gardens & watched Gigi–have you seen it? It’s one of those old classics that surprises & delights you with how things “used to be.” It was free AND we got 2 coupons for free burritos at Chipotle. Score.

We spent a good chunk of the weekend watching LDS General Conference. For Mormons, this is like, a super-big deal. It’s kind of like a big pep rally (minus the cheerleaders + MoTab). I’m very much on a spiritual high after listening to so many inspiring messages. (I especially loved this one.)

Yesterday, we had some friends over to watch conference, Joseph made his tortillas & I...

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Grain-free, Gluten-free, + Vegan Pumpkin Spice Cookies

I’d like to think I’m a deliberate person. Not like how Joseph is deliberate–who does everything from cutting tomatoes & ironing his shirts with exactness–but deliberate in that I think ahead, I have a plan, I calculate.

Sometimes though, despite all the calculations, the pros & con lists, I just have a feeling I need to do something, say something, act without fully knowing all the answers. I call it intuition, Napolean Dynamite calls it “listening to your heart.” My intuition has streaks of spontaneity, which serves as a great foil to Joseph’s constancy. Yet, overall, my thoughts & actions are measured, intentional, or so I would like to think.

I like to wake up early in the morning. Really early. Like 4 or 5 in the morning.

I lay in bed for a few minutes, just listening to...

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